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  • niwzodowe 6:45 pm on December 12, 2011 Permalink
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    How to Tie a Tie: 3 Tips to Enhance Your Job Interview Attire 

    If someone asks you “what’s the most important part of your job interview attire?”, what would you answer? The suit? The shirt? The shoes? Perhaps. But did you know that the tie, to your outfit, is what the focal point is to a picture? adult live chat

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    The shirt is the canvas and the suit is the frame. Change the frame on a picture and no one notices, change the picture in a frame and you can change the look of an entire room. That’s why it’s important for your tie to enhance your look, not detract from it.

    Buying The Right Tie

    To begin with, you first need a quality tie made of 100% pure silk to accomplish that job. As a male, you are generally expected to wear a plain colored, non-distracting tie with your interview suit, e.g. in a dark red or dark blue color.

    However, simply buying the most expensive tie you can find in town won’t just leave that “most-favorable” impression you are looking for. People judge your capabilities by how you look. A crooked tie projects a sloppy look and says the same about your skills and abilities. Therefore, it’s important to focus on the tie knot as well.

    Tying the Four in Hand Knot

    The most useful tie knot to know for starters is the Four in Hand. It’s somewhat narrow and slightly asymmetrical in form and looks just about perfect with any standard button-down shirt.

    To tie it, you stand in front of a mirror with your tie hanging loosely around your neck. Now, there are two ends to a tie: One that’s wide that we’re going to call “W” and a rather narrow one that we’re going to call “N”. The wide end “W” should extend about 12 inches below narrow end “N”.

    To begin, cross the wide end “W” over narrow the end “N”. Then turn the wide end “W” back underneath the narrow end “N”. Continue by bringing the wide end “W” back over in front of the narrow end “N” again. Afterwards, pull the wide end “W” up and through the loop around your neck.

    Next, hold the front of the knot loosely with your index finger and bring the wide end “W” down through the front loop. Finally, remove your finger and tighten the knot carefully to your dress shirt’s collar by holding on to the narrow end “N” and sliding the knot up.

    If you’re feeling a little overwhelmed right now, don’t worry! Rather check out the colored diagrams at

    http://www.tie-a-tie.net/fourinhand.html which might be quite helpful to you.

    Once you’ve tied the knot, make sure that the widest part of your tie hangs roughly at the same height as the upper edge of your leather belt. And the belt, of course, should match the color of your shoes!

    The Benefits of Tie Accessories

    Another item you should consider buying besides your tie is something called a tie accessory. Tie accessories come in the form of tie bars, clips, tacks, chains and straps. Their main purpose is to hold your tie in place at all times and prevent it from getting in your way when you eat, work or play. From my personal experience, I would recommend a classic silver tie bar.

    During a job interview a tie accessory comes in especially handy. That’s because without one, your tie would move around as you greet your interviewer or when you shift in your seat. Subconsciously, you would reach down to adjust your tie and straighten it out but such little things would make you feel even more nervous than you already are.

    Conclusion

    So, here’s a quick summary of what I recommend you do before going to your next job interview:

    #1: Buy a quality, conservative, 100% pure silk tie.

    #2: Practice how to tie the Four in Hand tie knot and make sure that the tie’s widest end is roughly at the upper edge of your belt.

    #3: Use a tie bar to attach your tie to your dress shirt.

    Remember — wearing a quality silk tie, properly tied and fastened, is probably the fastest way there is to improving your overall job interview appearance and doubling your chances of leaving a favorable impression. Enjoy the interview!

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink  

    The History of Honda Motors Company Ltd 

    Honda Motors Company Ltd. is a Japanese-based car maker registered as a public multinational corporation currently stationed at Minato, Tokyo, Japan. Honda was founded by Soichiro Honda on September 24, 1948. Soichiro was a mechanic and a self-taught engineer who first worked at a Japanese tuning shop named “Art Shokai.”

    Soichiro, at first worked on developing a piston that he could sell to Toyota, but his first attempt was rejected by the Japanese car maker. After the first rejection, Soichiro worked hard to perfect the design of his piston and a few years later it was accepted by Toyota. After this, Honda opened his own factory which was later damaged by the earthquake. Shortage of gasoline supply due to World War II had further worsened Honda’s business situation. Due to this, Honda had failed to sell his cars.

    Despite the initial failure, Honda’s decided he would attempt to attach a small engine to a bicycle. This instantly became a hit. Honda’s idea would eventually lead to the invention of the motorcycle. Honda received the needed capital and began producing the first batch of motorcycles. These events marked the actual start of the Honda Motor Company. Due to stable sales and rising demands for his products, Honda had emerged as the world’s largest producer of motorcycles in 1964.

    Honda then ventured into developing the company’s own version of automobiles. It was in August of 1963 when Honda started the production of his first automobile. The first model that was produced was the T360, a mini pickup truck that was powered by a 356 cc straight-4 engine. Two months after that, Honda was able to produce his first ever car, known as the S500 sports car. The S500 was a rear-wheel drive vehicle driven by chains, just like a motorcycle.

    After a few decades, Honda extended its production to other products. At the present, Honda is producing products such as automobiles, motorcycles, and power equipment. Aside from these, the company has also ventured into the production of engines, robots and air crafts, however, its automobile production still remains as one of the largest globally distributed products.

    Honda opened its first store in the US in the year 1959. This was established in Los Angeles with only 6 employees. After a few years, Honda’s sales in the US had increased and the demand for the products they sell had increased, which led to further expansion. Due to this, Honda established more stores in different areas of the US to meet the needs of its growing customers.

    At present, the American Honda Motor Company is currently based in Torrance, California. This regional division of the Japanese car maker is now in-charge of the production and distribution of Honda vehicles all over the US. In Canada, all of the company’s sales and production efforts are handled by Honda Canada Inc., which is based in its corporate headquarters at Markham, Ontario. In addition to this, there is also Honda of Canada Manufacturing, based in Alliston, Ontario.

    As of now, Honda has many assembling plants all over the globe. Some of these are located in Asia, America, and Europe. With this expansion, Honda emerged as the second largest Japanese car maker in 2001, surpassing Nissan. In August 2008, Honda was able to surpass Chrysler’s sales and production. This made Honda the fourth largest car manufacturer in the US and the sixth largest all over the globe.

    Honda’s position as a leading automobile manufacturer however was affected by the March 2011 earthquake in Japan. The effect of this natural calamity has somehow crippled Honda’s production and even forced some of the company’s assembling plants to slow their vehicle production down. Honda has subsequently recovered from this particular challenge and is currently making its way back to producing more vehicles and meet the demands of its consumers worldwide.

    For now, Honda offers an impressive vehicle line-up, consisting of the Civic, Accord, Insight, Fit, Odyssey, and the CR-V worldwide. Each of these vehicles vary depending on the region where they are purchased. Many of the vehicles vary in engine, accessories and options in order to meet the needs of that particular area.

    In the US market, Honda is still experiencing higher demands for its Civic, a line of compact cars which is also the company’s second-largest nameplate. This model has been competing with the Toyota Corolla since it was first introduced to the market and up to the present. In order to provide US consumers with more car choices, Honda has introduced other models such as the Fit and the Accord. Both of these models are currently experiencing impressive sales in the US.

    In terms of SUV, Honda continues to produce its Pilot and Element for the US, while its production of trucks is only limited to the Ridgeline, since the demand for this type of vehicle has gone down. This is also the case for the minivan. Honda is currently offering the Odyssey as the sole minivan model, since only a few consumers would want to buy this type of vehicle.

    In order to tackle the issue of the continuing rise of gasoline prices, as well as the rising environmental concerns about harmful effects of carbon emissions on the natural environment, Honda has also made several hybrids with better fuel economy. These vehicles are composed of the Civic Hybrid, FCX Clarity, Insight, and the CR-Z. Aside from these, Honda is also exploring the possibilities of producing vehicles that are powered by engines that use alternative fuels such as compressed natural gas.

    Given these efforts and operational strategies, Honda Motors Company Limited Still remains as one of the most reliable and prestigious car manufacturers in the world that continues to look for ways to provide car finders with vehicles that suit their diverse needs.

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    Preserving the Classic American Car 

    If you know me then you already know how I like to talk about the preservation of the classic American cars and muscle cars, I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to keep these cars on the roads, so we have a presence of them around.

    Isn’t it enough that our country is getting inundated by imports, and the fact that people are always saying how much better other countries are building cars then we do, well without Henry Ford none of them would be building cars as we know them today, and if I remember correctly he was an American.

    We need a heavy presence of American cars, just to help put way the dull drab looking imports, you know cars that have a little style and character to offer, not just these cookie cutter expensive, yet cheap built imports, how much better is a BMW, Mercedes or any other import then a good old American car.

    Buy American people, all I hear is people bitching about the economy, well it seems to me that if we were to buy our own country’s products, it would improve our well being, and that we would have a better economy, we would all be a lot happier, if you buy an American car from an American dealer or an individual, you have done your part to help the economy.

    Let’s say that you bought a car from a dealer, he’d have to pay taxes, and that would help the economy, and the car manufacture of American cars would hire Americans to build the cars, and that would also help the economy by keeping the money that the manufacture pays it’s employees in our country, and buying things from American companies, therefore improving the economy.

    This brings me to the whole point of this little rant, if we were all to buy an old classic American car and restore it to it’s original glory, we’d be buying parts from American companies and having American businesses restoring those cars, and thereby infusing money back in to the economy, to help build our country’s economy back to it’s stable old self, we all need to think more like this.

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    Five Valentine Gifts For Free – These Ideas Are Romantic and Budget-Friendly! 

    Celebration of love and affection between most companions who are intimate happens on Valentines. This is when we express our appreciation to people who have touched our lives in one way or another. However, celebrating special people may seem impossible especially in hard economic situations. If you have reached your financial bottom, do not let it jeopardize your valentines day. Want to spoil your lover and you are broke? here are some romantic ideas that are budget friendly and easy to follow. They allow you to impress and say i love you in a pleasant way.

    To make a special valentines Gift for your loved one, get a journal book and simply make it pretty. How? Identify lists of all kinds and have sections for this on your journal. Let them include a short story of your love, personal thoughts, interesting and embarrassing moments with your loved ones, poetry, lyrics and quotes from people your loved one likes. For each section, leave a space for your lovers comment. Make it as personal and romantic as possible. You can also stick some of the lovers favorite cartoon cuttings. This is your valentines gift for them.

    See, my five valentine gifts for free are easy you, love birds. Its time to go out, dress according to the weather because it may not always be friendly. Take a walk to the nearest lovers corner, take photos and make out. Fly a kite to the arboretum and play together. Carry with you, heart shaped-home made sugar cookies and organic wine! This day, you choose to show love to mother nature.

    Go old school and make a card. With a blue or pink plain paper, profess your love at the center leaving enough space all around. Slightly burn the paper on the edges to give it a brown color. Fold the paper into two, holding the words on the inside. Burn a red candle and drop the candle wax on either sides of the paper, drawing a love heart. The brown edges gives your card an old school look. So if money stands your way, let your mind take over, be creative!

    Can you play with words? here is another free gift. Write your lovers name, horizontally on a piece of paper. For each letter write a kind word. Let the word of each letter flow with the next to give a beautiful meaning. For example, Emily could be used to mean Every Moment I Love You. If you can not play with words, be crafty. On a big plain paper, stick your lovers photo around it, stick love heart cuttings preferably red in color.

    My last valentine gift for free; you may choose to stay in the house, listen to music or catch a romantic movie. Give your partner a lap dance or a strip tease after all, its only the two of you. You do not want to end it there now, do you? Play strip scrabble. Set rules that are comfortable to both of you. You may need to decide the extend of stripping so as not to cause any embarrassment. You may not need a safe word on when to stop the game. There is no better day to learn strip scrabble than on valentines!

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink  

    Drawing the Human Body – The One Thing You Need To Know 

    In order to draw the human figure well, you need to have a good knowledge of human anatomy. Yet many artists today still hang on to the myth that good figure drawing does not involve studying anatomy. Perhaps the reason so many artists feel this way is because they never saw first hand what a big difference a little anatomical detail can make to their sketches.

    In this article, I’d like to give you some quick but important points about the human body and how they pertains to your figure drawing.

    Of all the aspects of human anatomy, the muscles will undoubtedly have the most impact on how your drawings look, as it is at the very surface. One thing to remember about muscles is that they always pull; every movement that you make is the direct result of one or more muscles contracting and pulling on your bones. What this means is that when the figure you are drawing is engaged in dynamic action, you must pay attention to the muscles involved and depict them accordingly.

    For example, if you are drawing a boxer who is throwing a right hook, you must ask yourself, “Which muscles are pulling in order to make this action possible?” Then you would draw those muscles as flexing. In this case, the flexing muscles would be the pectoralis major, the deltoid, and the biceps, to name a few. In most cases, a particular movement will involve multiple muscle groups and the more muscles you can depict, the more convincing your drawings will be. Without this, your drawings will look static and lifeless.

    Your ability to recognize and draw these muscles will improve as your knowledge of anatomy increases. As a beginner, you might only be able to draw big muscles like the bicep or shoulder, but as you progress in your study of anatomy, you’ll be able to add in finer details like the supinator longus and the anconeus. This will give your drawing an extra dimension of realism.

    Just a light knowledge of anatomy can do wonders for your drawing. For example, there are many muscles in the neck but there is one particular muscle that artists should pay attention to. It is the sternocleidomastoid. It connects behind the ear and attaches to the collar bone. This muscle is very prominent and can be seen on almost everyone. Simply by adding this one muscle to your drawings of the neck, you can instantly make it ten times more realistic. This should show you how useful human anatomy is to the figure drawing artist.

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    Best Places to go on a Date 

    Does the waiter know how you like your steak, and more about your love life than you do yourself? You are stuck in a “boring-dates syndrome”! Or perhaps you are conducting a psychological experiment on the people you date, and trying to keep the environment constant… It is at least good your haven’t just given up on trying yet! Perhaps this is not quite you, but you do feel bored with your dating life, or you stopped dating all together.

    Generally people do stop dating after being in a relationship for a while, there is no reason to, however it tends to happenbecause people end up doing the same things over and over again which ends up being more boring than just staying at home.

    Here are a few basic rules to keep dating interesting:

    Stick to the season

    Like you should eat in season to save money you should date “in season” to have fun. Don’t insist on walking around too much outside when the frost is permanently attached to anything you touch. Except if you have skates on your feet! Be active but do what you like. Dating is a great way to share your hobbies with someone else. Try to get them excited to try it, even if they suck at it. Make sure you show some compassion for a mate who flies screaming down a slope on a snowboard for you while you look all put together.

    Share an interest

    This is a tricky thing that usually becomes an actual problem in relationships and can just be plain helpful as a date idea: include your date in your life. If you don’t want them to be part of it, then why bother to date them? Instead of just watching sports on TV and having a pissed off girlfriend take her to an actual game. She is much more likely to have fun with you than watch you have fun on your own! Girls can get their couch potato moving by taking them to the gym. This goes for all interests, try to share them but do not force them on someone if they really do not like what they see. Taking a guy to a knitting club might just not be a thing to do! If you get desperate sit down with the other person and brainstorm on what you enjoy; if something brought you together it means you must have something in common from which you can find things to enjoy together.

    It is important not to force interests upon a person if they try it and really decide not to like it; it is just as important to share things in a relationship as to have separate lives on the side. This is what will give you something to talk about on your dates! If you stop seeing your friends, stop scuba diving because your partner is afraid of water and stop doing the things you love, you will end up in a boring relationship with silences on both ends of the table. This is the beginning of the end and before you know it you are in the singles dating scene again starting the process all over. So finding a balance between shared interests and things you do alone early on is very important. Note however that just because you share all interests you are not doomed to fail; even if you are both psyched about golf, you can still go play just with friends. So don’t be too paranoid about finding an “interests balance”, rather if you continue dating the person try to get a balance in the relationship itself.

    The key thing is to get out of the house and out of the restaurant. Movies also do not count as a real “date” because you are actually not interacting with the person. You could have watched the movie alone holding a big pillow and it would make little difference. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Needless to say this avoids great boredom later down the road!

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink  

    How To Find A Genuine Tantra Teacher 

    If you are looking for individual tantra sessions or tantra for couples instruction, you will already have done some research on available practitioners. There is certainly no dearth of so-called tantra teachers who promise to take your sex life to the orgasmic stratosphere. How do you find the right one for you in the pack? This is not as simple as it may sound. However, here are some tips on choosing a tantra teacher who is genuine and authentic.

    Beware of tantra masters who only make promises of increasing your sexual abilities and satisfaction. These so-called tantra experts know how to entice customers who only relate tantra to sex.

    Though sex is an important aspect and focus of the ancient tantra scriptures, the path to tantra sex is through specific spiritual practices. Tantra is not a form of spiritual Viagra – it is a spiritual way of life. Unless a tantra master is capable of bringing his students onto this path, he cannot offer anything of value. For an amusing caricature of such fraudulent ‘tantra experts’, the film ‘The Guru’ is highly recommended.

    Ask the tantra teacher about where he obtained his knowledge from. Authentic tantra knowledge comes only from an unbroken line of tantra practitioners.

    The secrets of sacred sexuality have not been handed out wholesale across the globe. Tantra is an ancient Indian science and its roots lie in Indian scriptures. As the unfortunate trend of ‘pop tantra’ spread across the world, various Western institutes began to offer tantric courses. These courses usually have nothing to do with the original Indian scriptures. Check on the tantric master’s certification, and also on how long he has been practicing.

    Establish whether the approach comes across as genuine. Do not discount your gut feelings about a tantric master, even if you have no prior knowledge on the subject.

    You must be comfortable with the tantra teacher’s offerings, and they must meet your own objectives. If you are a genuine seeker of tantra knowledge, you will want to be introduced to its deeper spiritual secrets. You will know that there are no short-cuts to this knowledge, and will wish to be instructed in a scientific and logical manner. If you feel that the teacher is only trying to give you what the more superficial thrill-seekers want, he is not for you. Also establish whether he offers individual sessions or also tantra for couples sessions.

    Get a referral from a close friend. There is no better yardstick than a satisfied client.

    You may have a friend or acquaintance who has already received tantra instructions from a tantric expert. If this person is satisfied with the instructions, there is no reason why you would not be satisfied as well. Find out what other tantric masters he or she approached before making a decision. This will help you eliminate quite a lot of the available options.

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    Gay Marriage – Karma, Past Lives, Spirituality, Numerology, and Astrology 

    Since the right to marry is denied to homosexual couples,

    according to the concept of karma, they may have denied

    equal rights to others in past lives. However, karma doesn’t

    always work that simply; there could be other reasons their

    unions aren’t legally recognized. For example, a gay person’s

    soul may have chosen to be in a position to stand up for his

    or her rights and help progress human consciousness in doing

    so.

    Homosexuals are using their free will, within the confines of

    their destinies, to acquire equal civil rights, including the right

    to get married. We’ll have to wait and see if gay marriage is

    destined to be legal.

    Regarding the love timing of homosexuals compared to

    heterosexuals, there is no difference. Everyone goes through

    their own unique time cycles, some wonderful for romantic

    involvement, some not so wonderful. Does the denial of the

    right to marry show up in a gay person’s charts? No, it doesn’t.

    However, denial of financial benefits or other rights (such as

    with the case of the death of a partner) would clearly be seen

    in the charts. Significant loss of collective net worth (involving

    inheritance/estate taxes, etc.) and the absence of other related

    benefits (those afforded to heterosexual married couples) greatly

    hindering standard of living are the types of challenging

    circumstances most definitely reflected in comprehensive

    numerology and astrology analyses.

    According to human rights advocates, the issue of gay marriage

    is a civil rights issue and since gay couples are denied benefits

    that straight married couples enjoy, they are being discriminated

    against. Gay and civil rights advocates say proposed constitutional

    amendments go well beyond the DOMA (Defense of Marriage

    Act, signed by President Clinton in 1996) and marks a new level

    of discrimination.

    Never has an amendment been passed to deny the rights of

    Americans. It seems reasonable to think that all those who put

    energy into passing this amendment would incur some negative

    karma in relation to human rights. Consequently, if this

    amendment passes (unlikely according to many political

    experts) this country (via its’ leaders and public support of

    those leaders) would also undoubtedly adopt some negative

    karma. Under this philosophy, it’s possible to envision a

    country far in the future, populated with the same characters,

    that is denied rewards and prosperity from a more powerful

    entity as a karmic backlash.

    Since it’s perfectly legal in America to be gay and in a

    committed relationship, denying the right to marry to

    homosexuals may eventually be seen by all as the same

    as racial or religious discrimination. Discrimination in any

    way, shape or form ultimately has everything to do with

    intolerance.

    Speaking of intolerance, religious leaders like Jerry Falwell

    have rigorously campaigned in America to permanently deny

    marriage and all the legal benefits (over 500 in all) to

    homosexuals who want a legal marital commitment. A few

    years ago, Falwell was interviewed on a national TV news

    show about the topic of gay marriage. His primary arguments

    against it were, “…it’s against Christian tenants…” and “…if we

    open the door to gay marriage in this country, we’ll have to deal

    with polygamy and bestiality too.” Falwell may be creating a date

    with destiny in a future lifetime where he is denied his basic

    human rights…in the name of religion.

    Maybe it’s best to accept the resistance towards equality and

    fairness and see it as part of the necessary alignment of energies.

    Polarity is integral to our universe. There can’t be cops without

    criminals and there can’t be light without darkness. Everyone

    appears to be fulfilling their earthly mission, no matter how

    disrespectful, selfish, or intolerant they may seem. The best

    everyone can do is to compassionately and peacefully stand up

    for what they believe in and their basic human rights.

    Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    Breakup Depression – Dealing With The Emotional Rollercoaster Of Your Breakup 

    Breakup depression can, and will be, an emotional roller coaster. You’re going to feel a whole range of negative emotions. Pain, anger, fear, and the worst, “depression”. Dealing with this mood disorder can be a real challenge on your own, but plenty of help is available if you wish to take advantage of it.

    Feeling like you’re having an emotional breakdown can be frightening all by yourself, that why its important to have a support group you can fall back on. Family, friends or other social groups that will help you deal with the pain and depression.

    Post breakup depression will stress you out big time. You feel all alone and probably think that you haven’t a friend in the world. But that is not the case, because you have help all around you, you just need to tap into the wealth of information around you.

    Get over depression after breakup as quickly as you can, although the first few days or weeks might prove difficult. Continuously drowning in despair will only drain your energy away and keep you in a downward spiral. Getting your heart torn apart is never fun, but if you can’t enjoy life your depression will only deepen.

    Breakup depression can be handled easily if you’re planning on getting back together with your ex eventually. If you’re still in love with each other and are willing to try effectively communicating with each, other the depression will be short – lived, and you will appreciate a much more loving relationship.

     
  • niwzodowe 7:51 pm on November 22, 2011 Permalink
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    7 Stupid Wedding Mistakes Even Smart Couples Make 

    “What in the world could they have been thinking?”

    Definitely words you DON’T want to hear your guests uttering at your wedding. But despite your best intentions, sometimes things slip through the cracks. Sometimes you make a really silly mistake that, if you had just stopped and thought about it for a few minutes, never would have happened.

    The problem is that many brides and grooms are so darn busy trying to manage everything else that’s going on – from housing out-of-town guests to dealing with last-minute cancellations or additions to the guest list — they simply overlook the obvious. That’s when smart people wind up making really stupid mistakes. Here are seven common slip-ups that can ruin an otherwise perfect ceremony.

    1. Failing to Thank the Guests

    They came to the wedding. They brought gifts. They stopped and congratulated you and took time out of their busy lives to help you celebrate the joining of you and your beloved in a new life together. Don’t leave the reception hall without saying thank you!

    2. Speaking While Intoxicated

    This one should be a new form of misdemeanor. If your wedding traditions include the bride or groom making a speech to the assembled guests, do it before you enjoy the free bar. You’ll be thankful later when you watch the wedding videos, and you won’t have to apologize to people you don’t remember insulting.

    3. Beware the Infamous “Wardrobe Malfunction”

    Black underwear, white dress. It was a bad idea in elementary school, and it’s still a bad idea today. Check in a mirror in various lighting situations to make sure that your dress isn’t sheer or invisible in certain conditions prior to the ceremony. If you are renting a tux, check it for rips and make sure you have it fitted before you bring it home. Also, black is the only acceptable color for a tuxedo.

    4. Late to the Altar

    Not only is this one inconsiderate to the guests and your soon-to-be spouse, but it also wreaks havoc on your vendors. Ice sculptures melt, food gets cold, and photographers lose needed time to pose people and get those still shots for memory albums. The only reason you should ever be late to your own wedding would be something completely beyond your control – like a force of nature.

    5. Running out of Food/Drinks

    You made the guest list. You know how many people you expect to be there. Running out of food is a good way to make sure your guests feel unappreciated and is inexcusable. This is not the place to save money. Make sure you have enough dinner and drinks for all who are expected to attend; it’s better to throw some away than have hungry guests and nothing to feed them.

    6. Know Where the Ring Is Before Walking Down the Aisle

    It happens more than you might think. The best man is supposed to be holding the rings, and he leaves them in his other coat. The bride expects them to be brought on a pillow but the ring-bearer is only eight and thought they were golden Barbie doll crowns. Do one more spot check for the rings before you start down the aisle and you won’t have to worry about an awkward moment and a ruined ceremony.

    7. Inviting Your “Ex” – Without Telling Anyone

    Unless there is an extremely good reason for inviting your ex-boyfriend or ex-wife, don’t do it. It makes everyone uncomfortable. A close corollary to this is not letting members of the wedding party know what your betrothed’s name is (yes, it sounds unbelievable but it DOES happen). If you have not been engaged for a long time, or you recently ended a long-standing relationship prior to your wedding and your wedding party isn’t familiar with your intended, make sure you introduce them. You don’t want to deal with a wedding toast to you and your ex-girlfriend because the best man didn’t know your bride’s name!

     
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